If you’re looking for a lifestyle that will give a whole different meaning to the phrase, “come here and give me some sugar,” then boy are you reading the right article.
When it comes to dating, there is nothing more interesting in my opinion than the sugar lifestyle. For the uninitiated, the sugar lifestyle is about sugar daddies and babies.
If you spend any amount of time on the internet, then you know that having a sugar daddy is something most college girls are somewhat looking for. Maybe they’re not looking for a full-on arrangement, but they’re definitely looking for a sprinkling of sugar when they retweet from guys offering to give them money for no reason or in exchange for feet pics.
Sugar dating has become something much more acceptable in recent years, which is why you’ve probably seen an increase in dating apps centered around sugar daddies and babies. While there are a ton of different kinds of sugar-centered arrangements that you could enter into, we’ll try to keep this discussion simple.
But when it comes down to finding some sort of “mutually beneficial arrangement”, where do you look? Which sites are worth it and which sites are a total scam?
I may or may not have seriously delved into this increasingly sweet world of sugar dating, so I do have some insight into where you should look for a daddy or a baby (or in some cases, mommies). When it comes to picking a site to use, it helps to be super picky.
Here are some of the top dating sites for sugar dating that I’ve come across and how I feel about them.
I hope this helps you in your search for a sugar… person
If you’re the kind of person who has money to burn and is into the exclusivity of the very very VIP section, then you’ll probably gravitate toward LUXY.
Okay, when it comes to sugar dating, you’re not going to be able to do this super openly. One of the things they promise on the front page of this dating site is that there won’t be any sugar babies. And that seems to be the concern… sugar babies.
A lot of rich guys – which there are plenty of on this site – tend to find women who are only interested in their money usually. However, if you’re a rich guy looking to throw money at a girl in exchange for affection, you’re not bothering any of the other rich guys (unless you’re looking for a wealthy man to spoil).
So I’d just be slick about looking for a sugar baby, no one has to know! Just be coy and only discuss the terms of your arrangement with the women who you approach.
This site is exactly what it says it is. It’s an exclusive dating site. It’s not like they have any sort of matchmaking feature (which they also promise on the front page, so it’ looks like we can’t’ totally trust everything we read on the internet). You’re essentially paying to meet the other people who are willing to pay to use the site.
While I think that this is great for people who are wealthy and looking to be discreet with their identity, I think that there are plenty of free sites that offer a similar experience. Sure, you’re not paying to be in another dating app’s super-secret dating club, so the only thing you’re lacking by signing up for another dating site is that there’s a lack of an exclusive feeling… that’s it.
Are you perhaps an established man who’s looking to date a beautiful woman? Well, perfect because this site is basically made for you then!
Established men are the kind of app where while it’s free for women to sign up, the men are going to have to pay. I know that this sounds terrible. However there are some upsides to it. The main pro is that the ratio of women to men is extremely unbalanced… in your favor.
Instead of most dating apps where the women are outnumbered by men, the women on this site outnumber the men 4:1. This is exciting news for you since you won’t have a lot of men to compete with!
Another great feature that this site has is that you’ll be able to find women online who have marked that they’re free to hang out tonight! So if you need a last minute date to a work function or if you just don’t feel like being on your own, you’ll be able to find someone!
The biggest let down of this site is that there are a ton of scammers, bots, and pros on this site. Since making a profile is free, it’s easy for scammers to flood the site with a ton of bullshit. There are also a ton of pros on the site. Pro sugar babies are the kinds of girls who literally make a living (or a sizable amount of money) by being a sugar baby to multiple men.
A lot of men don’t mind making arrangements (both long-term and casual arrangements) with these women, but a lot of men do (I don’t blame them, I don’t like sharing either).
When it comes to sugar dating sites, Seeking Arrangement is probably the cream of the crop if there was to be one.
Not only is SA a staple in the online dating scene, but they also host conferences and events all centered around the sugar lifestyle. They also release a calendar with the top-rated sugar babies online for that year!
What I love about this site is that it’s free to join, it’s free to set up privacy settings, and it’s free to chat. You’re not going to find a huge paywall here. However, if you do choose to upgrade you’re going to be featured on the front page from time to time, and you’re going to have a premium spot in search results.
Plus, if you’ve upgraded, it shows that you’re not just bullshitting when it comes to having money. I like SA because it’s the most normalized and popular site. You’re going to find a lot of normal people on this site, and you’re going to find a lot of high profile people too. It’s a great mix of vanilla, kinky, and mentor-like people on this site and I really enjoy this site’s community.