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Kinky Sex Dates Review [ Read This Before Signing Up ]

For those of you who haven’t been paying attention to internet culture at all, you may not have noticed the huge increase in kink being super normal. You can’t scroll for five seconds on Twitter or Insta without someone making a reference to wanting to be called “Daddy” or wanting to be choked.

I know that a lot of kink and fetish culture still seems dark and dirty and niche to most, but it’s hard to deny the popularization of fetish when instead of people describing their crushes in a cutesy way you have everyone talking about how they want their celeb crush to punch them in the face.

With the dark side of sexuality becoming more and more acceptable, people are becoming less uncomfortable about talking to their partner about spicing things up in the bedroom. Bondage has always been one of the most common fetishes (right behind feet), more and more people are just becoming comfortable when speaking up about their desires.

Well, if you’re looking to spice things up in your own sex life, learn how to make your sex life with your partner darker, or looking to welcome another person into bed, you should turn to KinkySexDates.com.

KinkySexDates is a site where you can find other people interested in the kinky and the darker side of sexuality. So, how does kinky sex dates stand up to other sites? Is it worth the sign-up? Well, I signed up so you wouldn’t have to… and here’s what I think about this site:

  1. First Impressions:

    When it comes to other vanilla dating sites, it’s always shocking to see someone list themselves as a “Dom” or a “sub.” While some people might be into that or are impressed with their boldness, I’ve always found it jarring. That’s why I feel much more comfortable advertising myself as someone interested in kink on sites dedicated to kinky people.

    Kinkysexdates doesn’t water down how kinky their users are. From the home page on, you’re going to see a lot of nudity and leather.

    While I might not feel comfortable saying that I’m interested in BDSM on Tinder or a site like Match, I sure don’t feel uncomfortable on this site. Everything is meant to be sexy and dark from the intro questions to the site itself.

    I think that the developers of this site do a great job of creating an environment that’s meant for sex – specifically of the rougher variety.

  2. Features:

    When it comes to navigating this site, you’re going to find a lot of things that are pretty indicative of a grid style dating site. You’re going to find a search feature that helps you sort through the large grid that you’re met with (your grid will be even more massive if you’re looking for people of all different genders and relationship statuses). This search feature is crucial to finding someone you’re going to mesh with.

    Plus, the site has a few other grid options which show the hottest people and the newest people in addition to the most recent uploaded photos and videos.

    You’ll also find an online now section, which can help if you’re looking to meet someone pretty immediately. If you’re trying to get laid tonight or looking for someone to chat with now, this will probably be the best grid for you to look at.

    You’ll also find a live cam feature up at the top of the site. Here other users can go live on cam – which is great if your personality comes across better on camera than through words… it’s also great if you’re just a voyeur.

  3. Pricing and membership details:

    When it comes to upgrades, you’re probably going to need to throw some money at this site to get the most out of it. You’re going to have to upgrade if you want to instant message people, have unlimited space to upload photos, and send/receive messages. You’ll also get preferred search placement, smart match capabilities, as well as a highlighted profile.

    With this upgrade, you’ll be able to use this site fully, and you’ll be able to find someone easily. If you chose otherwise you'd have to wait until an upgraded member contacts you first… even then you may not be able to return a message.

  4. Pros:

    • Social Score : I think that whenever a site has a social score that it has a pretty positive side – as well as negative, but we don’t need to talk about that for now.

      With this score, you’ll be able to determine who is actually active on their profile and who may be long abandoned. This can also help you determine who is a bot or fake user. They’re unlikely to have a high social score, or they’re likely to have an inflated one.

      Use this to your advantage.

    • Mass messaging: Again, this site makes finding someone at a moment’s notice super easy. If you’re looking to bang right now or find someone to talk with immediately, this tool will help you accomplish that.

      This makes it easy to cast your net wide, which I maintain is a key to finding sexual success (especially when it comes to hooking up).

    • Live cams : While you’re waiting for someone to message back, you don’t have to far to find adult entertainment. Plus, if you’re into amateur stuff, then the cam feature is going to be your new favorite.

      Here is where you can find some of the hottest users on cam. They’re incentivized to get naked as they can be tipped!

    • PORN! : Again, you don’t have to go far to find entertainment on this site. There is plenty of porn hosted on this site (both amateur and slightly less than amateur).

      I don’t really need to go on about how this is a great feature, it just is… duh.

  5. Cons:

    • Mass messaging : While mass messaging can be great if you’re looking to find someone to hook up with, it can suck if you’re the one on the end of a hundred mass messages.

      Someone who you thought was just flirting with you could be flirting with 100 other people at the same time… plus you might find yourself getting a ton of spam and that’s never fun.

    • Paywalls: While I think this site is great at what it does, why would you upgrade when there are other sites that don’t have nearly as many paywalls?

      I think that this site is great, but I don’t like to open my wallet unless I really feel compelled to.

  6. Conclusion

    While I enjoyed this site, I don’t think I’ll be paying for a subscription. I’m a pretty cheap person, so I’ll be sticking to the free sites. However, I think that this site is great.

    3.5/5 Stars

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